Thursday, January 5, 2012

How can my girl friend overcome her fear of ual activities?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now, but we’ve been through a lot. Well, I have. I courted her for 6 years, saw her at her happiest and saddest moments, (literally and figuratively) stayed true to her even if she had 3 other boy friends, while I remained single (Honestly. Not even bothering to court other girls – that’s how much I love her) but the impact of her latest ex boyfriend on her still affect our relationship. Her last relationship wasn’t about love, it was all lust – her ex made her rent an apartment and he’d **** my girlfriend, literally – her ‘til she cried, forcing her to swallow his sperm, even choked her several times in the process, making her masturbate him at all the wrong places (clroom, bus, trains) while all the people around them saw it. The didn’t even spend a single penny on their relationship. Basically, her last relationship was with the devil. When they broke up, I watched over my girlfriend, taking care of her with everything I got, ‘til we got together, 5 months after. Because she knew how long I waited for her, she gave me a chance. A sad thing is, she won’t have with me (I asked her that when we were already 6 months together) but that’s fine, I adjusted for her, I never asked for ever gain nor ever touched her at her private parts because I know what she’s been through. It’s just that, these past 2 weeks, while she was riding the bus going home, she’s been molested and groped for 6 times now. I gave her pepper spray and a pocket knife and taught her how to use it when she’s being molested but she told me she couldn’t move when those perverts were touching her, she kept remembering her bad experiences with her ex, she keeps saying to me they might fight back at her and choke her and ****. All I could do is cry with her. I can’t take her home and bring her to work even if I want to because I have 3 jobs, and I asked so much favors from my bosses that it’s hard to resign. I tried to but they won’t let me. Help me, please. I don’t know what to do anymore, how can I help my girlfriend overcome her fear of ual activities? :(

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