Family Stress, Please help me out!?

If that is the way it is, you and your boyfriend should find your own place. My sister lived with her inlaws, it was a mess. Her husband is in the navy and she was always there alone. She wasn't allowed to go out after a certain time and if she came home late she would get called a slut and other horrible names. They paid all their bills, trips to south america and other things. Well eventually she moved out of there, but is still dumb enough to pay for trips and bills along with gas, and other necessities. You need to leave or stop doing the things you have been doing. I think you are being to nice. Just my opinion though. They should appreciate you more.